Sunday, October 25th 2026

Call to Worship Worship Leader

Worship Anthem Worship

Offering Together

Prayer Intercessor

Lord’s Supper Together

Announcements Presider

Greeting Time Together

Sermon Pastor Hoon, “Relationtips and the Iceberg beneath...”

Praise & Prayer Together

SERMON NOTES: “RelationTips and the Iceberg beneath..."

As Glaciers are mostly underwater... so most of us is also “UNSEEN”

1. Family of Origin

2. Differences as men and women

3. Shame from the Fall

How we Deal with Conflict

1. Evasion

2. Escalation

3. Negative Interpretation

THE GOSPEL OF MARRIAGE

Good News! Jesus came to deal with our guilt and shame (Heb.12:2)

His PRESENCE fills our PRACTICE

4 Practices for Healthier Relationships

1. Practice of Clarity (Method: When you do ‘X’ (action) in situation ‘Y’ (setting) I feel ‘Z’ (feeling))
2. Practice of Mirroring (Ask, “Help me understand what you mean?”, "What I’m hearing is"

3. Practice of Response (The course of conflict is often set by the one who responds, not initiates)

4. The Practice of Reconciliation (Healthy couples ≠couples ≠hurt each other but know how to repair after hurt)